Demian Farnworth, Gurney Norman, and You

Demian Farnworth says he got the quote from Cory Doctorow. Cory says it came from Tim O’Reilly. I didn’t chase it back any further. Any way you cut it, though, the thought rings true – besides, Demian and I were speaking about a different twist to the idea anyway.

In 2002, O’Reilly, in a remarkably succinct treatise on file sharing said, “Obscurity is a far greater threat to authors and creative artists than piracy.”

Demian said, “The toughest job a writer has to face is not how to get money, but how to overcome obscurity. You must get noticed, if you want to get paid.”

And that’s my first point about Demian. He’s a stand-up guy. He’s not trying to sneak affiliate links past you, or work constantly at pitching his newest book. He’s just Demian. And he’s a darned good guy. End of story.

Beginning of the story

Demian Farnworth on Roadturn

The D-man

I first met the D-man (he said I could call him that, so don’t wince) several years back. I came across a blog post authored by him, left a comment, and was surprised to get a quick and personal answer to my question.

That’s another thing about Demian. He’s available. He doesn’t hide behind a wall of virtual assistants. You ask the D-man something, and he’ll respond … personally.

I was thrilled to see him hire on at Copyblogger. It’s like when two good friends get together and hit it off. You knew they were meant for one another. Demian Farnworth and Copyblogger are a really good fit.

And Demian has found a way to beat that enemy of every writer: Obscurity.

Guest Blogging works

“Guest blogging is like baseball,” he says. “The guys playing in the minor leagues are working their butts off, but they’re getting exposure and they are developing their muscles.”

Of course, he’s right.

I like to take my boy out to watch the Idaho Falls Chukars (a Kansas City Royals affiliate) play ball. Jose Canseco got his start here. So did Billy Martin.

The Big League clubs watch the minors. That’s where they find much of their talent. They let a prospective player get toned up and battle ready. Then, when the timing is right and a position opens up in the Bigs, the call goes out.

And one more baseball player realizes his dream.

Yep, the toughest job is not figuring out how to make money, not for a professional writer or other creative. The toughest job is figuring out how to get noticed. And writing guest posts — giving your best content to others — is the way many good writers pay their dues.

I’ve been helping Ann Smarty with the work at My Blog Guest, and I’m telling you, friends … there’s plenty of opportunity there that many folks just don’t grasp.

Oh well. If you want some tips, shoot me a line.

The Education of a Writer

Writer, Gurney Norman

Gurney Norman

On his own blog, CopyBot, the D-man has begun an ambitious project. It’s an electronic version of something my buddy, Gurney Norman, successfully pulled off in 1971 for the Last Whole Earth Catalog.

It’s a trip.

Working under the relentless hounding of eco-entrepreneur and general roustabout, Stewart Brand, Gurney pumped out his first book, Divine Rights Trip, and Stewart scattered sections of it all through the catalog. (Gurney, correct me if I’m wrong. It’s been a few years since we took a walk-and-talk alongside Troublesome Creek and you told me the story.)

Anyway … Demian is churning out the makings of his first book as posts on CopyBot. And, if there’s any non-believers in the crowd, check it out: here’s the starting point.

Here we go again

Which reminds me of another story. I was waiting in line at McKay’s grocery store in Myrtle Point, Oregon, trying to pay for my goods and go fishing. Instead, I was stuck there,  listening to the lady in front of me rattle on with her buddy (who happened to be working as cashier).

The lady says, “Oh did I tell you, I’m writing a book now.”

Her friend (aka Cashier) says, “Ohhhh … you have to bring me a copy.”

“Well,” beams the woman, “it’s all in my head right now, but I’ll let you know when it’s published!”

Unbelievable, yes. But true.

But that ain’t Demian Farnworth’s style. Demian doesn’t talk about writing. He writes. And he writes good.

But …

Niagra Falls barrelHeading over the falls in a badly bruised barrel

Lest I forget this post is supposed to be the honest-to-God recital of a recent interview with Demian (although, the wily D-Man caught on to my sneaky tactics), I’m going to deliver the requisite beans before closing.

Here goes. Demian Farnworth’s absolute best advice for writers.

If you want to end up rich, famous, and maybe even totally cool too … here is how:

Don’t stop …

“The one who stays in the game,” says Demian, “is the one who wins the game.”

So … all you minor-leaguers out there … sweating and pitching and catching and running bases like you’re chasing something yet unseen, but absolutely necessary.

Keep going. Don’t let up. Don’t listen when they tell you to get a haircut and go to work for the cigar-chewing fat man with the red face and too-short tie.

Do what Gurney and Demian and all real writers do.

WRITE, you fool, WRITE!

and don’t stop trying.

 

The Roadmap to Freedom – Dream Into It

Folks keep asking about the Dream Into It Field Manual and where the work on an updated edition stands. That is a tough subject for me. Like many of you, I spend my days (and often my nights) working for other people and have very little time for my own projects.

The truth is … way too often … I don’t even take time from work to be present with my family. That is changing though. More and more, clearer and clearer, my own Dream is becoming a reality. It is close now. It is very close.

Here’s the next couple of steps:

1. The name of the program is changing–well, it’s reversing, actually. From now on, I’m going to do my best to refer to the most powerful time and life management system on the planet as …. The Roadmap to Freedom: Dream Into It.

2. I am asking for readers and believers to join me in updating the Roadmap to Freedom. Here’s what I want you to do: Enter your name and email address in the signup form below. I will then email you a link to access the complete Roadmap to Freedom Field Manual It will come absolutely FREE of charge or obligation … however there are two things I hope you will do: work through the steps of the program and send feedback on how you think it could be made better.

I know many of you will hesitate here. It looks like I’m trying to get you on my mailing list.

I do want to know who downloads the book, and I do want to stay in touch … so, if that’s a mailing list, okay … I’m busted. For now, though, I just haven’t figured out a better way to get the book to you. I’m working on a direct download link. If you know how I can pull that off, please let me know.

The Roadmap to Freedom is a powerful, powerful, powerful system. If you use it, your life will change. No bull. True story.

Sign in here and I will send you the manuscript. No shipping or handling. No clever ploys.

How to decide where you want to go

Getting started on a journey is the toughest part. The first part of the Dream Into It Roadmap separates those who will from those who won’t. Let’s find out right away which group you belong to.

There are a ton of resources aimed at helping a person identify who they are and what they want to do. In ancient times, Socrates insisted that one must “Know thyself,” and Quintilian, the famous Roman orator, was positive that focus, simplicity, and clarity are the keys to success.

When I first began this work, the vocational question was, “What color is your parachute?” Later on, Tony Robbins urged us to take control of our lives by awakening “the giant within.”

Stephen Covey entered the fray with, “First things first,” and his colleague, Hyrum Smith, set us on a search for our “governing values.”

Others have talked about finding your passion, knowing your purpose, writing a life mission statement, being the best you can be, setting big goals, and creating the life you love.

It can get confusing out there, can’t it? All of the pundits offers some good advice—but whose advice to take, and how to enact it?

As part of a project I was working on for one of the Small Business Administration’s Small Business Development Centers, I revisited every self-development program that I had ever attempted, and I studied many more that I had missed. I invested months of research in that work, and I studied until a light came on: There was one principle that they all acknowledged, one principle that seemed to be the hinge pin… and it goes like this:

Something that thrills you may bore me to tears—and my main desire might sound like your worst nightmare.

Fitting a square peg into a round hole is seldom a good idea. Many of us waste years of our life trying to be someone we are not, and others settle for just a reflection of what could be.

Our primary mistake is that we mistakenly attempt to live a life that will please others (impossible), rather than to go after the life that is our own.
The flip side of that coin is a bit more difficult to see: Those who are severely hurt and let down by others can turn to rebellion as a way of life—even to the point of denying their own deepest desires.

After all, we are brought up to please others, aren’t we? To head in our own direction is to “make Mommy and Daddy sad.” To think differently than the crowd is to “disrupt the meeting” or to risk being counted as “not part of the team.”

By the time we have left the teenage years, it is likely that our youthful Dream, our God-given picture of who we are, is either so covered up by conformity that it is no longer recognizable, or has turned into a destructive vendetta to show the world who is boss.

It doesn’t have to be that way, though. Most folks can still recall the basics of who they are and where they want to go. They still know what they really want—they just don’t believe it is possible, so their Dream gets filed away in the basement of their consciousness like a discarded jacket.

Here’s the deal: In order to access the power of The Roadturn Principles, you will need to risk digging your Dream out of storage, taking a look at it, and brushing it off with a few basic exercises. (By the way, if your Dream doesn’t fit anymore, you can trade it in for a new one.)

We are going to keep the process very simple, but you do need to set aside some time to do the hardest work there is: Focused thinking. This first exercise will require fifteen minutes, more or less.

When you’re ready, let’s get started…

In the Direction of Your Dreams…

 

I learned this, at least, by my experiment: that if one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours.

Thoreau said that we need to advance confidently in the direction of our dreams. That is good news. In my work with the Dream Into It program for life management, I’ve seen the specific content of dreams change regularly. As one works with the eight powerful steps that make up the basics of the system, it is not only possible–but probable–that you will come to know yourself and your dream at a deeper and more conscious level. That is as it should be.

If I am in Florida and decide to drive to Oregon, the first 2500 miles or so are not wasted… even if I change my mind mid-journey and head for Medford, rather than Portland. But, if I stay in Florida until I decide exactly where I want to go, I may not ever get started. It’s the same with your dream, your true ambition: The main thing is that you begin to advance in the direction of your dreams, not that you know exactly where you will end up.

I wish you success. I wish you courage. I wish you a miracle. Dream Into It: The Roadmap to Freedom has changed my life entirely. It can do the same for you. May this day, the eve of the Day of Atonement, see you inscribed for a year ahead that is unlike any you have ever seen before.

Dream Into It: Roadmap to Freedom

Aijalon Mahli Gomes is back home, thank you Lord. Paul and Julie-Ann Potts are doing well (regrettably, though, the “One Chance” movie has been canceled), and Faryl Smith’s “Wonderland” album will soon see its second Christmas of sales. God is good. Even Anna Chapman has made a turnaround. Busted as an international spy, she is making headlines with her most recent photo shoot. Anna stands to do a whole lot better at fashion modeling and acting than at espionage.

I’ve enjoyed these stories, and I have personally been inspired by them. I wish Aijalon, Paul, Faryl, Anna and the others who have been a part of the Roadturn story all the best. With the release of Aijalon, though, it is time to move on. It is time to talk some about you and me, and about how we can see our own dreams come true.

Roadturn is heading towards a program that I call “Dream Into It: A Roadmap to Freedom.” It is something that I have been working with over the past year, and it has made a profound difference in my life. It’s time to begin sharing it with you.

The work was inspired
by a quote from Henry David Thoreau’s Walden.

I learned this, at least, by my experiment: that if one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours.

We could begin with “If.” It’s a big word. Rather, though, let’s go with the prerequisite. Thoreau assumes that we have dreams that we can advance toward. I’ve spoken with a slew of people over the past year, and I’m inclined to agree. We do have dreams. Most of us know exactly what we would like–we are clear on our “calling.” Few of us acknowledge it, though. My experience is that we either deny we have a dream (since it seems unreachable anyway), or we try to force ourselves to fit a dream that we think will impress others.

What about you? Do you know the kind of life that you would really like to lead? Do you have a dream buried, one that seems so absurd that you seldom talk about it? Are you stuck in a rut and despair of ever getting out?

The news I have is this: You can get out of the rut. You can begin to walk towards your dream–but first, you must acknowledge that it exists, that it is there. Can you, will you do that? If so, you are on your way.

Let me know, I’d love to hear about your dream. I’d love to see you on the journey…

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